We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise (each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you.
-Translation of the Holy Qur’an 49:13
In the divine scripture of the Quran, verse 49:13 emphasizes the fundamental truth that God created humans from diverse backgrounds, nations, and tribes. This variety was purposeful – to encourage us to engage with one another, learning, appreciating, and understanding the unique qualities each person brings to the tapestry of humanity. Central to this interaction is the concept of self-awareness, self-love, and self-respect. By fostering these qualities within ourselves, we not only honor the divine creation within us but also pave the way for mutual respect and unity amongst all members of society.
It is within ourselves that we must first seek to understand, love, and respect who we are. The Muslim Alliance in North America (MANA) understands this profound truth and is dedicated to empowering the African-American Muslim community through self-discovery, self-determination, and collective personal development. By recognizing and celebrating our individual worth and strengths, we are better equipped to navigate the complexities of human relationships with grace and dignity.
Self-acceptance is the cornerstone of personal dignity. Embracing our unique identities – our strengths, weaknesses, and experiences – allows us to stand firm in our authenticity and approach others with genuineness and sincerity. When we acknowledge and appreciate our own worth, we cultivate a sense of inner peace and confidence that radiates outward, guiding our interactions with others.
Self-awareness deepens our understanding of ourselves and those around us. By exploring our beliefs, values, and emotions, we gain insight into our motivations and behaviours. This introspection enables us to navigate relationships with clarity and empathy, fostering a deeper connection with others based on mutual understanding and respect.
Self-respect is the ultimate expression of dignity. When we honor our own boundaries, values, and needs, we set the standard for how we expect to be treated by others. By upholding our self-worth, we communicate to the world that we are deserving of kindness, respect, compassion, and dignity. This self-assuredness allows us to approach the “Table of Humanity” with personal integrity, confident in our worth and open to the richness of diversity that surrounds us.
Confidence, kindness, and regard for others stem from a foundation of self-love and self-respect. When we cultivate these qualities within ourselves, we are better equipped to engage with others authentically, honoring the divine spark that resides in each individual. By embracing personal dignity, we not only elevate ourselves but also contribute to the creation of a more compassionate and understanding society where all are valued and respected.
Discovering and accepting one’s true self is essential for fostering genuine connections with others and cultivating a sense of interconnectedness within humanity. As we journey towards a more harmonious world, let us remember that true unity begins with the recognition and celebration of our own humanity. Through self-acceptance, self-awareness, and self-respect, we can embrace our personal and collective dignity and extend the same grace to others. In doing so, we honor the divine wisdom of creation and forge pathways of connection and understanding that transcend barriers of division and intolerance.
Allah says in the Quran, “And among His Signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth and the diversity of your languages and colors. Indeed, in that are signs for those of knowledge.”
Akanke is an Atlanta native who grew up in a non-religious family. In her late twenties, she embraced Islam after an unexpected introduction to the faith while training as a television producer. She volunteered to help as a camera operator on a live talk show featuring Muslim guests and was captivated by the insightful discussions surrounding Islam. Encouraged by her fellow producer colleagues, she attended Friday prayers and began reading the Quran, ultimately finding profound inspiration that solidified her decision to convert. This transformative experience ignited a lifelong passion for spirituality and personal growth rooted in her faith.
Akanke holds a degree in Communication from Georgia State University, specializing in film, television, and anthropology. Her diverse career includes roles as a television and radio producer, life coach, voiceover artist, and abstract painter. During a decade spent in Bahrain and Saudi Arabia, Akanke refined her public speaking and leadership skills, mentoring women through two women-only Toastmasters clubs she founded. Above all, Akanke emphasizes spirituality as the cornerstone of self-actualization, advocating for a life devoted to Allah. She believes personal growth and lasting success stem from a strong, loving relationship with Him.
Since 2007, Akanke has been involved with MANA in various capacities. She currently serves as Board Vice President and part-time Director of Communications.
